open up to us about something deeply personal, it’s up to us, as their parents, to take in that information and be extremely tactful. They trust us. We are their safe space. That bond could easily be broken in an instant if they learn we’ve breached that trust.One woman found herself in that situation whenNow, she’s wondering if she was in the wrong to withhold the information for three weeks.
However, she’s noticed a change in his behavior towards her since then. Going so far as to ignore her birthday. “NTA. I wouldn't tell my husband at all if I knew he usually reacts this way. Also I would not tell him without my daughter's permission,” one user wrote.Another echoed, “This might be controversial but I don’t think you HAD to tell your husband at all. Sometimes I confide in my mom about things that I wouldn’t want my dad to know. I think it depends on whether or not the daughter is okay with him knowing so not to break her trust and respect her privacy.