Something that may be hard for you to hear, but that you absolutely need to hear, is the truth about yourself. It's not always easy to confront our own flaws, insecurities, or areas for growth, but it is essential for personal development and building healthier relationships.
Accepting your flaws means taking responsibility for them. Acknowledge that you have control over your actions and behaviors, and that you can work towards improving yourself. Taking responsibility empowers you to make positive changes and grow as an individual. Take an honest look at your own role and contribution to the dynamics of your past relationships. Reflect on your behaviors, communication style, and any patterns that may have influenced the outcomes. Extract lessons and learnings from your past relationships.
As relationships and circumstances evolve, it's important to revisit and reassess your wants and needs. Regularly check in with yourself and your partner to ensure that your needs are being met and to address any changes or adjustments that may be necessary.