How To Respond When Your Kid Blurts Out 'Is That A Boy Or A Girl?'

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Conversations about gender identity can be tricky, acknowledges learning specialist Desmond Fambrini, but there are a few things parents should keep in mind.

, you're going to have a lot of big conversations with them. You may even have the same conversations multiple times, adding new tidbits with each leap in their age. Some subjects are so nuanced — i.e.,— that you may feel a little unsure of yourself when addressing them. And unexpectedly facing those complex conversations in public? It's enough to trigger full-on panic.

"First of all, you need to realize that the child is not trying to offend anyone and, in a way, it's not really rude," shares Fambrini. "If you see a person and you're not quite sure what they are, the most educational thing would be to have a conversation with your kid about it.""'I'm not really sure. That person seems to have short hair. So, they might be a boy. However, girls can have short hair, too,'" suggests Fambrini, as an example.

You might have this conversation in your house already. Like, when your four-year-old gets it into her head that "pants are for boys" and refuses to wear them. Or when your little boy notices only one of his cis-gendered, hetero parents paints their fingernails. It's one thing to have those conversations about yourself, though; it's another to stand in front of a stranger and make assumptions about their lived existence.

But Fambrini knows kids pretty well, and they often don't readily accept a non-answer . So, Fambrini's advice could serve as a good jumping-off point.

 

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