My Fiancé Thinks My Vicious High School Bully Should Be a Guest at Our Wedding

Dear Care and Feeding,

My fiancé and I are very excited to be getting married soon. I love him and I’ve never been happier. However, there’s a problem with our wedding guest list. Some background: I had a very hard time in high school; I had mental health issues that went unmedicated and as a result was bullied mercilessly by my peers. It was traumatizing and painful to the point where I nearly took my own life. My fiancé, in contrast, was a varsity athlete and remembers high school very fondly. He understands that it was a bad time for me, but he was never bullied in his life.

For what is the endgame here, after the wedding?? What if your soon-to-be husband’s close friend stays committed to your high-school bully? What if she marries him? What if your future children become friends? Do you plan never to attend any social engagement that includes her, and therefore might include the guy? You don’t need to become best friends with him.

your fiance is a bully. get out. now!!

I would have serious concerns about marrying someone lacking the compassion to understand how having my vicious childhood bully at my wedding would ruin my day.

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